Covey seven habits
How
to Live the Seven habits of Highly Effective People
Covey seven habits
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How to Live the Seven Habits of Highly Effective People
“Out of chaos come all great things in our lives!” – Steven
Covey
Steven Covey’s book, “The 7 Habits of Highly Effective
People”, is one of the all time best selling self-help books. Each
Habit is like an ice-berg in that there is far more below the surface
of the words.
Living the Covey Seven Habits is a challenge to all of
us. One of the best ways to understand a topic is to study the opposite – I
have included an explanation of both EFFECTIVE and ineffective
people for each of the Covey seven habits.
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Habit
|
Effective
People
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Ineffective
People
|
Action
|
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1 Be
proactive
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Effective
People Take control & internalise that we are responsible for our
lives – who we are, where we are & what we have.
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Ineffective
People Feel the environment, situation, family, boss and so on control
them and they can do little to change this.
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List 2
results you have achieved by being proactive.
List 2 areas
in your life where you could be more proactive and take proactive
action for each
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2 Begin with
the end in mind
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Effective
People are VERY clear about what we want & what is important.
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Ineffective
People drift through life, never stopping to think “what is my ultimate
destination in life?”
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Describe/MindMap
what you would do & what would be important and how you would feel
if you had more money than you could spend in a life-time!
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3 First
things first
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Effective
People Spend time planning to ensure we are taking action on things
that are important in getting us to our destination defined
by Habit 2
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Ineffective
People react to “urgency”, such as phones, email and ad hoc events. Usually in this mode they spend a lot of time
“putting out fires”
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Spend 1 hour
today listing & prioritising the tasks for this week that will help
you get to your Habit 2 destination.
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4 Think
Win-Win
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Effective
People Recognise others are important too. Our
outcomes should benefit ourselves AND others. Believe in abundance –
there IS plenty for everyone.
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Ineffective
People want to Win. They consider that
there is a finite “pie” & need to beat others to get their piece. OR they just give-in as it is too hard for stand
up for what I want (lose-win).
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Set a
context for your next meeting to create a win-win outcome.
After the meeting take 10 minutes to write down how
the
meeting flowed and if there was anything different happening.
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5 Seek first
to understand & then to be understood
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Effective
People Genuinely want to understand & accept others.
Actively listen, clarify & get agreement. THEN communicate our agenda.
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Ineffective
People focus on their needs. They talk
much more than listen. Interrupt &
Judge others.
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Select
another meeting and set the context to REALLY understand others. Re-state their points tho their satisfaction
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6 Synergise
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Effective
People know the whole is far greater the sum of the parts
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Ineffective
People want others to agree with their ideas. They feel they are
“right”.
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Make a time
to create/build something with a child. Notice how you feel.
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7 Sharpen
the Saw
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Effective
People Plan & invest time & money to develop ourselves
physically, mentally & spiritually.
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Ineffective
People let their mind, body & soul gradually diminish.
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Book time
for an activity that will develop YOU – Such as a FREE trial coaching
session!
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The Covey seven habits can help us to be much more effective. It does
take effort and discipline. Keep this chart in sight for a month as a
reminder you want to improve and live the Covey seven habits.
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