Family
Time Management
3. Boys Need Time with their
Dad
Family time management! Do you spend
as much time as you want to with your family? Do you spend as much time as you
need to with your kids? Many people we speak to do not. In fact this seems to be
one of biggest sources of stress today. You want to spend more time with
your family, but work demands your time.
Point number three is about boys
spending time with their Dad.
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3. Boys need time with their
Dad
Some friends of mine were talking
about Family Time Management after listening to parenting expert and well-known
author, Stephen Biddulph speak about his book "Raising Boys".
As I have an 6 year old son, I was
interested to hear what Stephen had to say. The key point that I picked up on
was that boys from the age of 6 -14 really need 'time' with their dad.
Kids, especially boys, need time with their Dad
The age of 6 - 14 is the most
influential period in their lives for bonding with Dad. The type of time boys
need can’t be thrown into a once a week or month block or some exotic holiday
once a year. Kids need to spend time with their Dads on a regular basis.
It’s the only way to build a strong and stable relationship.
For the single mums reading this,
don't despair. A positive male role model in a boy’s life like an uncle, brother,
grandfather teacher, tennis coach etc. will work as well. For the single guys,
think about the mums or orphans you can help!
Look for an opportunity to spend time
with your kids, with your family and friends. A long weekend, Easter,
Christmas, or even an afternoon where to take the day off to pick them up from
school and spend time with them. Invest in this time and be truly connected to
the moments with them. Make a commitment to continue investing time in your
family. Do it, because if nothing changes, nothing changes!
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